coolsibu
I always think why should i marry or love.i can give that time 2 my carier.i think sex is just a biological need.and if it is avaliable 4 money then why should i love or marry.besides this i am well eduacated and stabilised.plz do comments . (12 years ago)

service
Interesting post. You have a point, but, how about kids and children ? Without love and marriage, where will be our new children, or where will you and me be ? By the way, I am also single.  (12 years ago)

PhoeniXBalakkl
Oh...! Good Q but if your parents had thought in this same way, you won't have been here.. The very basic necessity of nature is making new generation in all living things.. It doesn't know what is love, marriage.. The love has been induced in all living things including human by themselve.. You cann't find the direct ans for your Q.. But, I'try to explain that how a family was planned in this socity and it's need.. In ancient period the people had no family, wife, daughter, mother etc.. After some thousands of years he was pushed into modern life.. After knowing that how to yield crops, he moved into agriculture life.. That time he didn't maintain any relationship.. He maintained the only relationship 'Enemy' with others.. He had to save his crops from others for no reason.. He noticed that, when a man is dead, the others shared his crops.. 'That time' he feared about himself.. If he is dead, the others will share his crops.. So, he decided to make a follower and keep his assets(crops and land).. Till that  (12 years ago)

PhoeniXBalakkl
Till that time, he was spreading his sparms to all women.. Then only he controlled his sexuality with one woman and he had a big work to secure that woman from other men.. That woman was called as Wife later.. Then he used her to take care his children and he used her as baby making machine.. This is the simple fact that how a husband and wife were created in the socity.. Well.. Now I come to Your Q.. We are living in this socity and we should follow the policies of the socity whereas the socity will coin a new name to you.. (12 years ago)

service
well said, phoenix. however, look at today world we are living... ppl dont like to get marry, dont like to make baby as bringing up kid is a burden due to higher living cost. and for those who married might not be happily ever after, adultery is so common nowadays, divorce rate getting higher year by year. we have come a long way to this wife husband family unit society, but is it time for a change now ? as this model seem does not bring the same peace and happiness anymore to some.... waiting for your answer.  (12 years ago)

PhoeniXBalakkl
Hmmm.. I didn't think so service.. Nowadays the generation is rushing towards no place.. Yes.. Rushing towards no place.. The main reason is they misunderstood what is modernism.. The socity is taking a leap into a utter dark culture.. Marriage regulates everyone.. If we go to search that whats mean by life, finally we'll get the ans as NOTHING.. But, we've to live a materialistic life for our circumstances and socity.. 99%of people think as only the Marriage makes everyone's life to a rounded one.. The remaining 1%people is getting fear to swim against the river called marriage and its corresponding results like children, a compulsion to earn money and give the assurance to a good life to their wife.. (12 years ago)

PhoeniXBalakkl
Being asked whether it was better to Marry or Not.... Socrates replied, Which ever you do, you will repent it...  (12 years ago)

rodayao
needs and wants are not the same. getting what you need will keep you survive while getting what you want will give you satisfaction. Ask yourself, will you be happy being alone? Love and belongingness is one of the basic needs of man to survive according to maslows.  (12 years ago)

PinkPearl72
'Educated n Stablized' .. yur qsns aint helpin' me believe that... (12 years ago)